Hey guys, here is a mini update for those of you who wanted to be where we were and for any unforeseen reasons couldn’t make it. I assure you there will be plenty more chances to catch up with Lola and I. We are not famous yet Loool just efficient!
I can honestly say both Lola and I and the remarkable people at RIG Assembly alongside the honourable Tomi Arayomi had a blast. Its not everyday that you share the stage with amazing people so once again thank you to him and RIG Assembly for having us.
Where do I start when you have 3 speakers sharing the truth from the heart. Perhaps I will start with Lola’s exceptional conversation about composure and character whilst working towards the right situations or being in the right situations. She actually shared the importance of building the right reputation with a good attitude towards whats set ahead of you. She spoke, drawing experiences from her own life how her reputation had remained relatively trouble free when it came to the dating scene and how much that influenced a man like me.
Truth Note: her kind deeds and integrity not to mess with guys just because they were her friends was a real winner in my eyes.
She could have been a different type of woman and most certainly “WE” would have never happened. No one is flawless like “Beyonce” but she(Lola) is most certainly one of the most mature women I have come across in this crazy generation Im glad I picked her and that she picked me. In summary she was the WISDOM of our conversation, unwittingly she embodied the very essence of her message. Sounds difficult to do but thats whats cool about being yourself and letting everyone learn from that rather than trying to make people aspire to be what you are not and then placing miscalculated expectations on the hearts of people.
Along comes yours truly with the next stage. I usually like to share things that are useful rather than display my intelligence on things that dont deliver help to people unless Im at an art exhibition where I can interpret things anyhow and someone will say “AHHH YES That is sooo true!”.
My task on that sunday was really to challenge how people perceive their present position and the relationships that surround them and possibly why constantly sticking around the crowd that has kept you stagnant whilst hoping to be counted as special was and is just not an option in 2014. For the more seasoned in the crowd my questions centred around if they the people you have risen up with are elevating you, where exactly are they elevating you to? I shared why maintaining the right moral position could mean parting ways with seemingly cool people. My Job was complete in bring the understanding that if we want things to turn out differently we shouldn’t essentially “Reward bad behaviour with ultimate dedication” because of its corrosive effects on destiny, not just ours but those that follow us. Perhaps my contribution was really the UNDERSTANDING
Finally came the RIG Nation founder Tomi Arayomi with what I can only term an internal conversation that has a great bearing on external and eternal circumstances. As you can see I love pointing out the influence and the impact people have on myself and the things I do and I can surely say that essentially he pretty much built an aeroplane with all the components Lola and I spoke about. He shared passionately about the fact that in order to reach #TheBoazPlace, which means “Quickening”. A man/woman would have to offend those in favour of enslaving themselves to emptiness, that same man/woman would need to stop taking responsibility for those who are willing slaves to unproductive habits, corrosive conversation, unbecoming behaviour and anything that remotely resembled traditions that limit spiritual, emotional, mental and physical progress. This is where the KNOWLEDGE came in. If you didn’t feel a vibration in the heart as your stubbornness to part ways with dead situations was put to shame and the procrastination towards destiny was deported then may you might need a doctor..
In short it was an amazing experience.
Put it this way the limitations that Lola did not assassinate, I Martin assasinated, and effectively what I did not assassinate Tomi was well able to cause to R.I.P!
With that being said I want to challenge those of you who are planning to do great things but are still waiting for a kick up their back side and are intentionally avoiding that one drastic action that will change your life because of PRIDE or FEAR. In your life remember these three things and from whom they come from, there will be a different result.
Through WISDOM a house is built,
And by UNDERSTANDING it is established;
By KNOWLEDGE the rooms are filled With all precious and pleasant riches. (Proverbs 24:3, 4 NKJV)
Essentially this is not how you should respond to something that could change your life. #TheBoazPlace
All things said with Love and Respect
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