Hey Guys, hope you’re all well. So the last few months for me have been about being creative and thankfully my endeavours have not been fruitless. Today I present to you a budding artist I’m working with known as Natisha. She is a Singer/SongWriter from South East London with an amazing voice and a heart of gold. Recently we dropped a song we worked on together and I would love for you to listen to it and share it where you can. It will soon be available on other streaming platforms but for now its available on Youtube and Soundcloud.
This song was written in response to the everyday frustrations of women who have been through it rough with men who claim to love them and will even die for them but never come through for them. The woman wishes to address the suppression shes facing and also deals with the unrealistic oppressive expectations of her lover and recounts how many times shes backed out of a relationship with him only to be sucked in by his charming persuasion. Find your strength to say no and make your feelings known.
Make sure you follow her on all her socials below.
Instagram – IamNatisha1
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Youtube – IamNatisha
Thanks so much for listening I deeply appreciate all the support you have shown for this song and the love you continue to show the hard work.
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So today I want to encourage you to start seeing what matters in front of you and making an intentional focus on that thing or person or people. Aside from your focus work hand in hand with people that are willing to encourage your ambitions. The Journey you are on is treacherous and you need to be honest with yourself about your levels of motivation and how frustrating being alone can be at critical times. This means making good friends if you don’t already have any and building a more meaningful exchange of heart and soul.
How many times have you been alone when it got tough, it taught you resilience but after a while, resilience must give way to a hand up and out of the pit of your mess. It takes extra courage to really reach for the next level of your resilience and accept the help that you were destined to have.
“Two are better than one,
Because they have a good reward for their labor.
For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.
But woe to him who is alone when he falls,
For he has no one to help him up.”
Be done with trying to go it alone when you should have a team to support and encourage your progress. Yes, some people don’t want to help and some people just inflate our egos but we should be actively looking for the kind of people we know are willing to help us.
“The most important factor in determining how intelligently a group will perform has nothing to do accumulated knowledge or skill set. Rather, it depends on how well the individual members can read the emotions of the other group members. Woolley calls this “social perceptiveness.” –Psychology Today
Stop winging it and get a wing man..
I was recently listening to a four-minute clip by a motivational speaker who was speaking about the reason why people who have dreams and ambitions don’t always achieve them and it struck a chord with me mainly because for the longest time there are things I want to do and achieve but found myself delaying on as well as procrastinating until my urge to do them was desperate. To be honest, in my desperation I can sometimes make hasty decisions… anyway in his teaching I picked up on something I hadn’t seen before. I hadn’t seen this key connection or perhaps hadn’t acknowledged the particular effects this had on my growth pattern. The speaker made a comparison between the belief that I should get things done and the weight of value that I myself put on those things which I need to be doing. I have always known that prioritising is effective in eliminating the not so important things and people that can get you walking in circles about your goals where you should be walking a straight but purposeful line.
He said that people often found themselves believing in the goal that they had set and the plans that they had made and that they had even valued what they set in their hearts to do but the reason it wasn’t happening was because in one of the two areas of either “Belief or Value” they didn’t have the conviction required to remain committed to the value they placed on the goal or that perhaps they valued it but did not believe in it as much.
‘Beliefs are the convictions that we generally hold to be true, usually without actual proof or evidence. They are often, but not always connected to religion. …Beliefs are basically assumptions that we make about the world and our values stem from those beliefs. – Difference Between
Friends, it’s safe to say if you don’t believe in it you won’t do it and certainly, if you don’t value it then you are likely not to continue even though you would have started so well. Is there just one key to staying consistent until we achieve our goal? Or rather is it diligently finding, through the suggested principles the unique combinations of your Motivation. Seeing as we may not all be mobilised by the same thing we need to be interested in our own unique self-motivation code in order to open the door of our potential and walk straight into manifestation. None of it is easy.
1) Prioritise and ask yourself on a scale of 1-10, 1 being Hopeless and 10 being I’m manifesting and acting on my imagination, insight, dream, vision… Just how important is what I’m doing? Is it worth going around in Circles with the Masses or should I be looking for a straight line, a narrow road that does not have too many people and distractions.. It’s not popular but I will walk the road less traveled to get there.
2) Do I believe in this every day or on a part-time basis? You see because if you don’t believe in it on some days you will do it in half measures or do nothing at all. Every time your motivation is low your action is often slow or nonexistent. So this means you have got to fuel your motivations and environments should be charged with reminders of your Core Beliefs. You literally need to take over your atmosphere and saturate it with reasons to keep going. This will keep your belief game strong. Vision Board (Pictures with Annotations stuck on a board, motivational messages about your actual goals ready to play, accountability partner on your phone instead of watching and listening to entertainment.
3) Value it store it deep within like water in a mountain but letting it flow out through specific, and intentional activities and also have accountability and counsel where possible to alert you when you are on the verge of violating your principle in the name of profit and your integrity in the name of compromise. Your values either make you distinct or extinct.
Never expect others to care more about your dreams or success more than you do.
All said with your future in mind, don’t stop keep it moving.
Firstly what is BAE and how did we get here? Well..
“Bae,” Urban Dictionary says, is an acronym that stands for “before anyone else,” or a shortened version of baby or babe, another word for sweetie, and, mostly unrelated, poop in Danish.25 Jul 2014
I was intrigued by the definition “Before Anyone Else” It kind of lets you know how important or rather how much of your time,effort and attention this one person can get but what happens when that person takes on the danish meaning of Bae? Do we accept and still keep them before anyone else? Do we remain dedicated and loyal to foolishness or do we depart in an orderly fashion and lie in wait for the next Bae? I mean it brings up so many questions but how do we deal with all this? Sometimes the reason it doesnt last with Bae a lot of the times we have picked Bae based on our wants and not our needs. When a person has poor or no deep awareness of thier actual needs and places their wants ahead of common sense they leave room for bad picking.
We see a fruit and pick it based on our desire and not on knowledge about the tree and its due seasons. Someone can look like, sound like, act like they are ready but majority of the time without preparation no one is every ready to be put “Before Anyone Else”. In fact, for the most part, Bae is really as I say through my own interpretation “Basic Attention & Entertainment” yes you’re right I said basic.
He or she is brought in to fill a void youve been wanting filled. You already felt empty and someone comes along and collects your affections, time and common sense. So you put them before anyone else in what you think is a sensible move while disregarding all the people that have made you amazing.
So you mate, copulate and saturate your exisitence with theirs and start the process of courting and suddenly this man or womans “Basic Attention and Entertainment” is not enough for you because you suddenly realise that despite getting what you wanted you actually have always needed more. Your wants are met but your needs are creeping up on you. What are you going to do?
Please get this in your mind today! BASIC ATTENTION CANNOT BE TRUSTED
For so long I personally have witnessed and battled with the kind of people this thought refers to. You know little of pain until you are caught in the war and chaos created by a divisive person.
Divisive people like to create an ecosystem based around them and often their divisiveness is rooted in control of the ecosystem that feeds your destiny. Divisive people always seek to control the strings of vital relationships that feed your work, inspiration and those that give you validation.
They spend the most time seeking an explanation for your preservation, Deliverance & transformation. They want the keys to everything that makes you unique as though they will unlock your next level of growth but really left up to them they would rather put you in the grave of unfulfilled potentials. Having been around them, having been in the midst of them I want you to know that the conversation is not about your well-being but about exposing you to humiliation.
So mind yourself, be conscious that discussion about your plans, future, well-being is not supposed to be happening with people who by nature only see how they can dig holes rather than mount stepping stones.
I’m sure in 2017 you have wised up even if its just a little bit.
So the other day my friend was talking about how I should start a Podcast seeing as there is something in me speaking. I took on the challenge and decided to call it Kicking It With A King! I wanted this to mean something to everything I do with and have become with the people God has bless me with.
I don’t seek to dominate people but more Cultivate people for greatness! So with that said enjoy the podcasts as they come through!
Im definitely looking forward to doing more and who knows I would like to get some guests in. In the meantime lets put that foundation in place.
Among other things I do Youtube stuffs lool.
King Vito Speaks
For the longest time I have had friends and my family encouraging me to do Video Blogging and I didn’t post about my previous videos but I think it’s only right I start doing that now in hopes of cours that what I’m doing will empower someone to step out of their shell. We don’t all need to be famous to be effective but we need to speak out about things that matter to us and strive as much as depends on us to make a difference. In my eyes the people who watch the videos are worth my time, my effort and they will do what needs to be done.
Check out the video and subscribe good people.
Whether its getting those grades or making that career move or making the gradaul transition into your newest entrepreneurial venture even finding love or getting over the hurt of a failed love. Always remember you have something great to do.
Beware of the paralysis that can come with fear of missing the mark in whatever goal you set for yourself.
Your goals can be intimidating majorly because they mean you having to change habits that have got you by but not made you fly. However with a change in habits will come a new perspective. There will be clarity of what more can be done with the time you have.
Use your time to excel and make meaningful moves. Read books for the areas of your ignorance
, ask questions to mentors in the area of your ventures, ask for help in the area of your limitation and ask for a team when the task requires more than the strength of one man. In the process I ask that you don’t ignore your desire for fulfilment. Dont ignore the values that keep you down to earth when your world is upside down. Your values affect choices abd choices affect outcomes and outcomes reflect true success.
So although you have things to do make sure you live life in the process of doing rather than skip life because of what you are doing.
Heres to doing whats worth it and what meaningful.
Peace & Love
Mr Vito Speaks
Too often a lot of us are frustrated with the way our lives are going but we constantly overlook the fact that we stopped being able to act on the truth we know after we gave away our self control to someone else and now we are remotely controlled by them.
Many of us cant and wont take responsibility for ourselves because someone else now has the pleasure of deciding our fate no matter how far away they are from us. Far away from the heart but close enough to cut the veins.
You really want to stop the ups and downs of emotional rollercoasters that involve you? Then take back your strength from the people sucking you lifeless with endless mind control tactics. Its constantly left you feeling exhausted, depressed and for the most part of your year mentally ill.
Your true friends dont, can’t even know you anymore as you are turning into a shadow of your former self and your tongue is full of hopelessness and at best “hopefully”. You used to be definite and focused but now youre divided a conquered. A city without adequate guards or watchful people.
“No” is your first word and “more” is the second word that must follow closely.
NO MORE “remotely controlling behaviour”
NO MORE “Loveless communications”
NO MORE “Mopping Up After Messy Inconsiderate children in the bodies of adults”
You dont need anyone to tell you anything more as you can already feel the frustration is driving you insane and instead of literally Killing your self. Take a hold of your self, strengthen your faith and your mind and break the remote control today!
Have A Good Day