Firstly what is BAE and how did we get here? Well..
“Bae,” Urban Dictionary says, is an acronym that stands for “before anyone else,” or a shortened version of baby or babe, another word for sweetie, and, mostly unrelated, poop in Danish.25 Jul 2014
I was intrigued by the definition “Before Anyone Else” It kind of lets you know how important or rather how much of your time,effort and attention this one person can get but what happens when that person takes on the danish meaning of Bae? Do we accept and still keep them before anyone else? Do we remain dedicated and loyal to foolishness or do we depart in an orderly fashion and lie in wait for the next Bae? I mean it brings up so many questions but how do we deal with all this? Sometimes the reason it doesnt last with Bae a lot of the times we have picked Bae based on our wants and not our needs. When a person has poor or no deep awareness of thier actual needs and places their wants ahead of common sense they leave room for bad picking.
We see a fruit and pick it based on our desire and not on knowledge about the tree and its due seasons. Someone can look like, sound like, act like they are ready but majority of the time without preparation no one is every ready to be put “Before Anyone Else”. In fact, for the most part, Bae is really as I say through my own interpretation “Basic Attention & Entertainment” yes you’re right I said basic.
He or she is brought in to fill a void youve been wanting filled. You already felt empty and someone comes along and collects your affections, time and common sense. So you put them before anyone else in what you think is a sensible move while disregarding all the people that have made you amazing.
So you mate, copulate and saturate your exisitence with theirs and start the process of courting and suddenly this man or womans “Basic Attention and Entertainment” is not enough for you because you suddenly realise that despite getting what you wanted you actually have always needed more. Your wants are met but your needs are creeping up on you. What are you going to do?
Please get this in your mind today! BASIC ATTENTION CANNOT BE TRUSTED