So today I want to encourage you to start seeing what matters in front of you and making an intentional focus on that thing or person or people. Aside from your focus work hand in hand with people that are willing to encourage your ambitions. The Journey you are on is treacherous and you need to be honest with yourself about your levels of motivation and how frustrating being alone can be at critical times. This means making good friends if you don’t already have any and building a more meaningful exchange of heart and soul.
How many times have you been alone when it got tough, it taught you resilience but after a while, resilience must give way to a hand up and out of the pit of your mess. It takes extra courage to really reach for the next level of your resilience and accept the help that you were destined to have.
“Two are better than one,
Because they have a good reward for their labor.
For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.
But woe to him who is alone when he falls,
For he has no one to help him up.”
Be done with trying to go it alone when you should have a team to support and encourage your progress. Yes, some people don’t want to help and some people just inflate our egos but we should be actively looking for the kind of people we know are willing to help us.
“The most important factor in determining how intelligently a group will perform has nothing to do accumulated knowledge or skill set. Rather, it depends on how well the individual members can read the emotions of the other group members. Woolley calls this “social perceptiveness.” –Psychology Today
Stop winging it and get a wing man..