So today I want to encourage you to start seeing what matters in front of you and making an intentional focus on that thing or person or people. Aside from your focus work hand in hand with people that are willing to encourage your ambitions. The Journey you are on is treacherous and you need to be honest with yourself about your levels of motivation and how frustrating being alone can be at critical times. This means making good friends if you don’t already have any and building a more meaningful exchange of heart and soul.
How many times have you been alone when it got tough, it taught you resilience but after a while, resilience must give way to a hand up and out of the pit of your mess. It takes extra courage to really reach for the next level of your resilience and accept the help that you were destined to have.
“Two are better than one,
Because they have a good reward for their labor.
For if they fall, one will lift up his companion.
But woe to him who is alone when he falls,
For he has no one to help him up.”
Be done with trying to go it alone when you should have a team to support and encourage your progress. Yes, some people don’t want to help and some people just inflate our egos but we should be actively looking for the kind of people we know are willing to help us.
“The most important factor in determining how intelligently a group will perform has nothing to do accumulated knowledge or skill set. Rather, it depends on how well the individual members can read the emotions of the other group members. Woolley calls this “social perceptiveness.” –Psychology Today
Stop winging it and get a wing man..
4 Things Attractive People Can Do With Their Beauty
If and when your beauty attracts any kind of attention from the same or the opposite sex. Aside from the obvious response “Thank You” here are four things you can do to maximise on that attention for your benefit and that of the other person.
1) Encourage the other person to find what makes them beautiful or even point it out if you can see it. People usually say what they would like to hear especially if they too have made an effort to look good, smell good, and clean up well.
2) In the advent that you have more time bring attention to something that you are passionate about. It could be a cause or a business or even charity. Invite the person to take part or spread the word too. Outward Beauty is merely an attraction tool but it should not be the only thing about you that is amazing. When you have no substance or stand for nothing more than your outward appearance then it becomes a curse and a turn off. Some people only dress for attention, and they become a magnet for foolishness.
3) Purposefully do something people in positions of attention usually do.
Plan your words and skills and presentation.
Choose wisely who you give and how you give maximum attention.
Self control and Discernment are extremely important when dealing with a new person. For instance women tend to attract different kinds of Men, and although most men have one thing on their mind other men are just curious about what makes a woman like you tick. In situations like this let discernment be your best friend. Some men have good intentions and others have bad, what matters most is how you handle that attention, whilst keeping your safety first and your integrity second and your weaknesses last.
Know and understand that every person you interact with so long as your alive can walk into anyone of these positions in your life. From a compliment can come a prospect, a prospect could become a customer, a customer could become a supporter, a supporter could become an advocate and an advocate could become a Partner. This applies to all kinds of conversation.
Men attract women a lot through what they say and how they are perceived. Every man should use his “Charm” & “Charisma” responsibly. As an influential man I realise more and more that women love “Charm” &”Charisma” but I think that Men should use these tools for more positive outcomes. Personal prostitution through your influence is quite dangerous and I feel for you when you are looking for the right woman to call your wife. One day you will get there inevitably and its going to prove difficult when you start discussing her in your character. All this because you have handled your influence irresponsibly.
4) Consider time and interactions as gifts and always make sure that you are the one giving it and not being robbed of it. Some people end up robbing you of precious time and before you know it your self esteem has taken a knocking. Always remain in charge of yourself regardless of how vulnerable you feel or how attracted you feel to the attention. You cannot predict everything that will happen but you can plan what you do in the event that things head in a direction you are not comfortable with.
All things said with Love and Respect,
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