You and Your Sex Life

[mass noun] (chiefly with reference to people) sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse:

That all important powerful gift of connection that has brought many people together since the earth began and simultaneously torn so many people apart. The subject of sex is broad and this subject should never be taken lightly.

When you are growing up your body, spirit and mind develops urges to be touched, to connect, to be aroused, to explore and to have sex(Join With Someone Emotionally Physically & Spiritually). These feelings or energy in motion are not wrong, but most times we do all these things with the wrong people. If you want to be strong and careful with your body you can. If you are still holding on to your virginity I want to let you know you don’t have to be pushed by your feelings to do anything. Never feel guilty about having this energy and desire however be extremely selective about when and who you will share your body with. Most people struggle with how and when they will share their body.


As much as it depends on you, you can share that Love with one person for your lifetime. This to many may seem like a dated idea but believe me when I say I know many people whom this idea has saved from foolishness. When you have sex you mix everything you are with another person and yes there are strings attached, when you share your body Remember that that person gets a very intimate part of your life. Don’t share your inner most being with someone who is not committed to you for life.

But what do you do when the pressure to have sex comes from all angles of your life? It maybe time to control the mediations of your heart. The truth is sexual feelings do sometimes arise out of no where and this in itself is a harmless biological function that does not have to be satisfied. It becomes harmful when seeking to fulfil them in illicit ways putting you in a position to require a fix all the time. Sex with no foundations really leads to more sex with no foundations.


Many a men and women have fallen way below their potential in life because sexual desire got in the way of their life’s mission. If you experience over powering feelings of desire for intimacy seek to understand what triggers them in you and definitely be very discerning about who and when you will share yourself because once it is done it can never be taken back. In the right circumstance it is extremely rewarding. In the wrong circumstance well it can damage everything from finance to future children and even marriage. So really this is my advice and its your call.

All things said with Love and Respect
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